Creating conversations about giving

Money is a taboo subject for many people. In fact, 62% of Americans don’t talk about it at all. But giving isn’t just about money. While generosity certainly can manifest as a monetary gift, it can also come in the form of a supportive attitude, volunteering time or providing resources – from professional services to needed supplies or physical space.

“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” – Proverbs 22:6

Generosity is a mindset. The first step in creating conversations about giving is to start early. Countless studies show children from generous families grow up to become generous adults. Giving starts at home! Consider involving your children or grandchildren by:

• Telling them why. Kids can ask a seemingly endless number of “why” questions. Invite them to do so! Explain the importance of supporting the causes you care about and the difference your support makes not only to the organization, but the community.
• Inviting them into the process. Children as young as 8 can begin to understand what’s important to them in their communities. Work together and accept feedback from them on the initiatives they may want to support. You may be surprised by their insight!
• Sharing your feelings. Giving makes us feel good, especially when we witness the positive impacts of our generosity. Let your children know how you feel about your efforts, and show them the fruits of that support when possible.
• Showing them all sides of giving. They may enjoy helping you select organizations for monetary donations, but raise well-rounded givers too! Older children may benefit from sorting donations at a food bank, attending an adult education program’s graduation or helping care for pets at an animal shelter, among others.
• Rewarding a generous spirit. Children may not have money of their own to give or the ability to volunteer without their parents. But remember, generosity is a mindset. Praise when they share, show compassion or recognize another’s need.

“Go into all the world and proclaim the gospel to the whole creation.” – Mark 16:15

Americans may not like to talk about money, but they are generous. More than 70% of charitable giving in the United States comes from individuals. And 25% of American adults volunteer their time in one way or another.

As Christians, it is our responsibility to share the love of God. And generosity, giving of ourselves, is one of the greatest ways to exemplify that love to our communities.

Remember that giving is not just monetary.

• Share your skills. If you’re highly organized, support event planning for a fundraiser or organize supplies at a place like a food bank. If you are a talented photographer, offer your services in support of an organization’s marketing efforts.
• Share your resources. If you’ve got a great meeting room at your place of business, allow an organization to use it for board meetings. If you find yourself with excess office supplies, pass some on.
• Share your passion. No matter who you are, you’ve got a network. And sometimes, your own drive to support a worthy endeavor will entice others to consider doing the same.

How are you sharing your generous spirit?